So my friend, who for the sake of his privacy we will call "Armando", just got off of his mission 2 months ago and is already engaged. Did he have a girl waiting for him, you ask? Why, no he did not, i tell you. He met a girl, started dating her and got engaged all in a 3-4 week period. Its absolutely ridiculous, and frankly (in my opinion) unintelligent.
Its common knowledge that im not exactly the most faithful Latter Day Saint theres ever been, but if there is one personal belief that i share with the church, it is that families are eternal and your spouse on earth will be your spouse in heaven. I just dont understand how people that believe that same thing, are willing to base their eternity on a relationship that theyve had going for THREE WEEKS! Ive known guys that used girls for their bodies for longer than that.
I'm only 18 and i dont have any desire to be married for a long time, but i can guarantee that when i AM ready to get married, ill be dating any prospective wife for a hell of a lot longer than 3 weeks. or even 3 months, for that matter.
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That is some crazy biz naz I tell you what... but seriously, I'm with you. I am thinking like, 3 years before getting married
good call. one should wait at least 6 weeks to get engaged
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